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Group Leaders delivering the Incredible Years Baby Parenting Program may have parents whose babies are experiencing sleep regression, a temporary period where a baby who was previously sleeping well suddenly starts experiencing sleep disruptions. Incredible Years Program Developer Carolyn Webster-Stratton has a new resource on sleep regression for parents of babies.
Baby Sleep Regression - Points to Remember
Sleep regression between the ages of 4 to 12 months is a common phase that many babies go through, typically involving a disruption in their previously established sleep patterns. During this period, babies may start waking up more frequently at night, have a harder time falling asleep, or exhibit changes in their napping schedule.
Several factors contribute to sleep regression during this stage, including:
Developmental Milestones:
These milestones can cause babies to be more excited, overstimulated, or physically restless, which affects their sleep.
Changes in Sleep Needs:
Separation Anxiety:
Teething Pain:
Sleep Associations:
Changes in Routine or Environment:
How to Manage Sleep Regression:
1. Consistent Sleep Routine:
Stick to a consistent sleep schedule and bedtime routine. This helps your baby understand that it’s time to wind down and sleep.
2. Encourage Independent Sleep:
If your baby has been accustomed to being rocked or fed to sleep, consider gently helping them learn to fall asleep on their own. Gradual sleep training methods (like the "Ferber Method" or "Pick Up/Put Down") may help.
3. Comfort and Reassurance:
During sleep regression, babies may need more comfort. Offering reassurance in the form of gentle patting, a comforting voice, or a quick check-in (without picking them up) can help them feel secure.
4. Teething Relief:
If teething is a culprit, consider offering teething toys or consult your pediatrician about over-the-counter pain relief options, such as infant pain relievers or teething gels.
5. Maintain Daytime Sleep:
Ensure that your baby is still getting the right amount of daytime sleep, as overtiredness can make sleep regression worse.
6. Be Patient:
Sleep regressions are typically temporary, and with consistency and time, your baby's sleep will likely return to normal once they adjust to their new developmental milestones.
Every baby is different, so it’s essential to remain flexible and observe what works best for your child during this phase. If sleep issues persist or worsen, it might be helpful to consult your pediatrician for guidance.
Download the new handout for parents: Baby Sleep Regression - Points to Remember